Lead Lightly: Building influence without the burnout.
You don’t need to hustle harder to be more influential.
Some of the most effective leaders I work with lead by holding their presence, not performing.
This edition of Lead Lightly is your reminder: more meetings, more visibility, and more decisions don’t always equal more impact. Influence doesn’t need to be loud to land.
Here are five tactics and mindset shifts to help you build influence with less noise, and more clarity.
#1 The unspoken pressure of mid-year performance
August is a weird month. The first half year of the performance cycle is done, results have come in, expectations stack, and everyone feels the squeeze thinking about what they need to achieve over the next six months. But no one says it out loud.
It doesn’t always look like burnout. Sometimes it looks like:
Constant re-prioritising
Overthinking small decisions
That low-key feeling of "something’s off"
Try this: block a half-day to step away from the doing. Review what’s actually working, and what’s not yours to carry anymore. Ask: "Where am I still playing safe just to be seen as busy?"
Insight: presence beats performance. Especially when the pressure ramps up.
#2 Quiet burnout is real
You’re still delivering, and showing up, and holding it together. But you’re running on fumes, and no one knows.
This is the version of burnout that hides under competence. It’s sneaky because it looks like:
You being ‘fine’
You saying yes to everything
You avoiding the real pause you need
Try this: cancel something, even if it’s just one thing. Then tell someone you trust: "I'm not as okay as I look."
Insight: you don’t have to be falling apart to need support.
#3 Cut change fatigue (without more meetings)
Leaders often try to solve change resistance with more of the same communication. But your team doesn’t need meetings that don’t say anything news, what they need is meaning.
Try this: ask your team to describe the change in one sentence. If they can’t, you’ve got a clarity problem.
Anchor every update in "Why this, why now." Then highlight silent wins to rebuild belief.
Insight: clarity is influence. Especially when people are overwhelmed.
#4 Keep your edge in chaos
You don’t need to be reactive to be responsive. Your sharpest thinking doesn’t happen in the swirl, it happens when you claim space.
Try this: start the day without your phone. No inbox. No LinkedIn scroll (ironic I know..). Just space.
Take 10 minutes to ask: what’s essential today?
Insight: influence doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from choosing what matters most and letting the rest wait.
#5 Influence starts with what you model
You set the tone, whether you mean to or not.
Your team is watching how you:
Say yes (or don’t)
Handle pressure
Treat your own time
If you want a culture of clarity, calm, and trust, it starts with you modelling it.
Try this: name one behaviour this week you want to shift in yourself before expecting it from others. Share it with your team. Let them see you practice it in real time.
Insight: influence isn’t about getting others to follow. It’s about going first, with intention.
Influence isn’t earned by adding more noise to an already crowded room. It grows in the pauses you take, the clarity you offer, and the way you show your team what it looks like to hold steady when the pressure climbs.
Notice the moments where you can say less, but mean more. That’s where your influence will land the hardest and last the longest.