Culture Isn't Built In Workshops. It's Built In What You Tolerate.
30 September 2026 | 7 minute read time
Organisational culture isn't built through workshops or values statements. It's shaped by the behaviours leaders reward, tolerate and model every day, especially when no one is watching.
Let’s not dance around it.
You can run all the workshops, roll out the value statements, even bring in consultants to run your sticky-note sessions (👋 hi, that’s me, but I don’t do fluffy, it must have meaning).
But unless that culture work translates into what people do, say, and tolerate daily, it’s just box-ticking.
Culture shows up when no one's watching. In how leaders behave when it’s inconvenient. In what gets protected or passed over. It isn’t what you say you stand for, rather it is what gets tolerated, prioritised, dismissed, defended, and ignored.
If you’re still pointing to a poster or polished values deck to define your culture, it’s time for a leadership upgrade.
Here’s what culture really looks like:
The 3pm meeting where someone interrupts again, and silence follows
Who gets credit, who gets away with poor behaviour, and who’s always apologising
The “open feedback culture” where everyone whispers in private, but stays quiet in the room
The performance review where truth is avoided because peace feels easier
If you’re not deliberately shaping culture, you’re silently endorsing it. And if you hold influence; it's yours to own.
Why this matters now
A strong culture is structural, strategic, and in 2025, it’s non-negotiable.
The O.C. Tanner 2026 Global Culture Report puts numbers to what leaders already feel; only 16% of employees are thriving in their role. And in the 2025 report nearly one-third of employees reported operating in survival mode, stuck in a cycle of exhaustion, disengagement, and burnout.
By contrast, research tells us employees who are thriving show significantly higher resilience, engagement, and performance, the very traits businesses need to navigate ongoing change.
In short: if you want a high-performing workforce, culture isn’t just part of the strategy; it is the strategy.
But what I’m hearing in coaching sessions confirms most organisations (and as a by-product, leaders) are not nailing it:
“We nod to our values, but they don’t land in decisions.”
“The strategy’s solid, but the behaviour doesn’t match.”
“No one’s really clear on what’s expected anymore.”
These aren’t communication issues. They’re cultural ones.
And if you don’t lead culture, it will lead itself.
So where do you start?
Here are five moves that shift culture from concept to practice.
#1 Define the culture you want
Stop using aspirational words like “collaboration”, “accountability”, “integrity” unless you can name what they look, feel and sound like in daily behaviour. Your team can’t align to vague aspirations.
Try this
Ask: “If someone watched our team for a week, what would they say we value?”
Then ask: “Does that match what we say we value?”
If not, you’ve got a culture mismatch; but not a branding problem, it’s a leadership one.
Insight: culture clarity starts with calling things what they really are. Straight talk, no spin or jargon.
#2 Don’t just model the good stuff, call out what doesn’t fit
Silence = complicity.
It’s not enough to quietly lead by example. Silence is complicity. What gets overlooked gets repeated. Even (especially) if it comes from your “star performer” or most senior leader.
Try this: pick one moment this week where
You name the behaviour that doesn’t align
You explain why it erodes what you’re building
You coach toward something better
Insight: you can’t build trust and tolerate toxicity, at the same time.
#3 Embed your values where it matters
Culture is reinforced when it’s embedded in the system of work. It’s in the invisible architecture of the business, not on a poster or in a slogan used on job ads and onboarding.
Look at:
How decisions are made
Who gets promoted
What gets recognised and rewarded
What gets swept under the rug
Try this: audit one everyday process; hiring, meetings, 1:1’s, feedback loops; and ask “is this helping or hindering the culture we say we want?”
Then fix one thing quickly. Not by committee, find a practical change and make it.
Insight: culture sticks when it’s baked into systems, not bolted on with slogans.
#4 Culture champions ≠ cheerleaders
This one might sting, but your “culture champions” aren’t there to plan team-building or post motivational quotes, they hold the line, especially when you’re not in the room.
Your real culture champions
Already walk the talk
Are trusted by peers
Influence without needing a title
Try this:
Spot the people already modelling what matters
Give them power to challenge, reset and redirect
Back them publicly when they do
Insight: you can’t build cultural momentum if the only people carrying it are underpaid, under-empowered, and over-volunteered.
#5 Measure what matters
Culture change needs data, not just vibes. But not another engagement survey that drops into a void.
If you’re not measuring cultural progress, you’re just hoping for the best. (and we all know, hope’s not a strategy.)
Try this:
Track one observable behaviour change
Add one pulse question monthly: “What’s feeling different around here?”
Capture one story where someone did something differently
Repeat. And don’t wait until the next engagement survey to know what’s happening.
Insight: culture work is strategy. If you’re not tracking it, it won’t stick.
Wrapping it up...
Driving culture isn’t fluffy ‘people stuff’, it is the work. It’s the reason people stay, leave, perform, or coast. It’s how change succeeds or stalls. And it’s how trust is earned or lost.
So, if September was about resetting your leadership (and if you haven’t downloaded the 15-minute reset worksheet yet, hit reply), the natural next step is this:
From personal awareness → cultural consistency
From self-leadership → to system leadership
From values on paper → to values in action (system)
Culture needs leaders who go first, then go again.
You in?
Key Takeaways
Organisational culture is defined by everyday behaviours, not published values or strategy documents.
Leaders shape culture through the behaviours they reward, tolerate, challenge and reinforce.
Cultural change becomes sustainable when values are embedded into decision-making, recognition, hiring and everyday systems.
Silence around poor behaviour weakens trust and normalises cultural inconsistency.
Influential culture champions model expected behaviours and create accountability throughout the organisation.
Measuring behavioural change provides a far more meaningful indicator of culture than engagement surveys alone.
Culture is a leadership responsibility and a strategic advantage, not a standalone people initiative.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is organisational culture?
Organisational culture is the collection of behaviours, decisions and unwritten norms that shape how people work together. It is reflected in what leaders consistently model, reward and tolerate rather than what is written in values statements.
Why do organisational values often fail?
Values fail when they remain aspirational rather than behavioural. Unless leaders demonstrate them consistently through decisions, feedback, accountability and recognition, employees quickly learn that the stated values are not how the organisation actually operates.
How do leaders build a strong culture?
Leaders build culture by modelling expected behaviours, addressing conduct that undermines trust, embedding values into organisational systems and creating consistent accountability for how work is done as well as what is achieved.
How can organisations measure culture effectively?
The most useful measures focus on observable behaviours, decision-making patterns, trust, accountability and employee experiences rather than relying solely on annual engagement surveys. Measuring behavioural change provides a clearer picture of cultural progress.
Who are culture champions?
Culture champions are trusted individuals who consistently demonstrate the behaviours the organisation values. They influence others through credibility and everyday actions rather than formal authority alone.
Why is culture a strategic advantage?
A healthy culture improves trust, engagement, decision-making, collaboration and organisational adaptability. It strengthens strategy execution by ensuring people behave consistently with the organisation's purpose and priorities, particularly during periods of change.
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About Louise
Louise Zawada is an executive coach, change strategist and leadership mentor based in Perth, Western Australia.
She works with senior leaders and executive teams navigating complex organisational change, helping them close the gap between strategy and execution by strengthening executive judgement, reducing leadership friction and improving the quality of conversations that drive performance.
Her work spans mining and resources, government, infrastructure and corporate organisations, where she coaches leaders to make better decisions under pressure, build trust through uncertainty and lead change with greater confidence and clarity.
Louise is the creator of the Leadership Friction framework and writes regularly on executive judgement, organisational legibility and the behavioural evidence that determines whether strategy becomes action.
If you're leading significant change and need a trusted thinking partner, connect with Louise or book a conversation.