Lead Lightly: Resilience is a team sport
Resilience isn’t about pushing through at all costs.
It’s about absorbing impact, learning from it, and continuing to lead with intention, especially when things feel unclear and wobbly. Your team will face ambiguity, shifting expectations, and messy change. Shielding them doesn’t build capability. Equipping them does.
The strongest teams don’t avoid pressure. They can hold it together when pressure hits, knowing when to adjust, when to step back, and when to move forward.
Here are five practical ways to help your team bend, adapt, and come back stronger each time.
#1 Treat safety as a system, not a vibe
Just because things are calm doesn’t mean people feel safe. Psychological safety doesn’t look like happy families and everyone getting along; it is ensuring people feeling safe to speak up, challenge decisions, admit mistakes, and offer new thinking without fear of consequence. It’s a structure, not a feeling.
What it looks like: someone says, "I think we’re missing something,” and the room leans in. A flagged risk is thanked, not sidelined.
Try this: audit your last three decisions. Who spoke? Who didn’t? Was disagreement welcomed or brushed aside? Start by naming what’s not being said.
Insight: safety is built into how you make decisions. Invite challenge, and people will trust you with the truth.
#2 Reward adaptability, not just achievement
Most performance cultures still favour. and reward sticking to the plan. Sometimes at the expense of noticing what is shifting around you.
But in times of change, identifying and knowing when to pivot is often more valuable than the original roadmap.
What it looks like: a team member flags a shift in stakeholder needs mid-project. The team adjusts, even if it means reshaping deliverables. You celebrate that move as good leadership.
Try this: in your next retro, highlight moments of smart adaptation. Who caught a shift before it became a problem? Share the story of why that flexibility mattered.
Insight: if you only reward end results, people will hide detours. If you reward responsiveness, they’ll look up more often and steer early.
#3 Model resilience in real time
Your team watches how you recover. The way you handle pressure speaks louder than any values slide.
What it looks like: you get hit with bad news. Instead of masking it or spiralling, you say: “Here’s what I know, here’s what I don’t, and here’s what I’m doing next.” Don’t pretend to be bulletproof, just be real, and dependable.
Try this: narrate your response to a challenge, out loud. “This knocked me sideways, but here’s how I’m regrouping” gives your team a framework they can follow.
Insight: transparency in tough moments creates a sense of steadiness, and eventually calm and ease. If you can stay anchored, your team learn they can too.
#4 Extend the lens beyond the sprint
When change is constant, the urgency loop takes over. But resilience is long game thinking. It needs room to cultivate and breathe.
What it looks like: your team is busy. But morale is low. You pause and ask, “What are we building that matters six months from now?” The conversation and energy shifts. Suddenly the work has weight, not just speed.
Try this: ask two questions during planning:
“What are we building for the long term?
“What trade-offs are we making, and are they worth it?”
Insight: resilience builds when people believe in the future they’re contributing to. Zoom out regularly enough that they see, and continue to see, the bigger picture and what's at stake.
#5 Protect energy
Burnout doesn’t build capability. High performance isn’t sustainable if it’s powered by depletion. Energy is one of the most overlooked levers of leadership. We manage budgets, time and headcount with precision, but when it comes to energy, we often wing it. And that’s where teams (and sometimes ourselves) quietly start to crack.
What it looks like: you start to notice the signs: short tempers, slow decisions, drop-off in collaboration. Instead of defaulting to “push through,” you intervene. You pause. You recalibrate. Maybe it’s cancelling a meeting, shifting a deadline, or openly naming the fatigue so people don’t feel like they’re failing.
Try this: instead of the usual status check-ins, run an “energy audit” once a month. Ask your team:
• “Which part of your role is most draining right now?
• “What’s something small that would make your week easier?”
Then choose one thing to change. One tiny action is better than ten acknowledgements that don't result in anything different.
Insight: energy is a shared resource. Recognise it, cultivate it, shield it. Managing your own and your team's energy can be one of the most important skills in your leadership toolkit.
This month’s reflection…
What’s one invisible pressure you or your team is carrying right now? If you feel heavy but can't put into words why, this is a signal to start a conversation with others to help you name it, share it, or ease it.